The 10 most annoying phrases that need to go ASAP!
Their time is up, and it's time to say goodbye to these tiresome phrases.
Every language is beautiful and unique in its own way.
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While some English rules might be infuriating, there is no doubt that it is a language filled with wonderful phrases, words and expressions.
With all due respect, some phrases can be retired.
In 2025, Reader's Digest called out 10 annoying phrases, because "not all phrases are created equal."
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We're not talking about Gen Z or Millennial slang.
This is about phrases that almost immediately trigger or irritate you every time you hear them, including outdated and rude ones wrapped in fake kindness.
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Here are the 10 most annoying phrases and what to replace them with.
"Thanks in advance"This has been labelled as a more demeaning and slightly passive-aggressive corporate phrase, even though it is the "polite" way of asking.
What to say instead: A simple "thanks" or "thanks for the help" will suffice.
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"With all due respect"
Let's be real, this is always accompanied by an insult or unsolicited advice, and you are definitely about to be disrespected.
What to say instead: Nothing, say what you want to say and stand by it.
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"Totes"
A shortened version that takes everyone back to the days of SMS talk or Mxit, but not in a nostalgic and fun way.
What to say instead: "Completely" or "Definitely". Use your words.
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"At this moment in time"
'I deserve a raise,' you say. 'The company isn’t awarding pay increases at this moment in time,' the boss replies. What an oddly philosophical way to murder someone’s dreams. It reminds us of that old business koan: 'What is the sound of one redundant employee crying?'
What to say instead: Times to rip off the bandage again, be honest and say that it's not going to happen.
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"It is what it is"
The more desperate and longer version of saying "whatever", but shorter than "I have no advice or anything helpful to contribute".
What to say instead: Reader's Digest suggests memorising the following T.S. Eliot line instead: "If you aren’t in over your head, how do you know how tall you are?”
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"At the end of the day"
This cliché is almost as bad as its counterparts, "all in all" and "when push comes to shove".
What to say instead: Instead, use one simple word that can do the trick: "Ultimately".
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"YOLO"
The phrase that justified every stupid choice, irresponsible purchase or selfish action for way too long.
What to say instead: A classic like "Carpe Diem" or just nothing at all.
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"I know, right?"
An annoying catchall answer to everything. If you respond with "I know, right?" chances are the person you're responding to knows, because they said it.
What to say instead: Follow up with more conversational language instead of a blanket statement.
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"Just saying"
Everyone understands that what you just said is what you said; it doesn't need clarification.
What to say instead: "Does that make sense?" or "Do you understand what I'm trying to say?"
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"I, personally"
When you are making a statement or sharing an opinion, the "personally" is applied. It's a redundant adverb.
What to say instead: Just say "I".
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