10 best non-traditional and anti-Valentine's Day gift ideas
If you are looking for creative, unique gift inspiration for this Valentine's Day, this list is for you.
When it comes to holiday celebrations, everyone has their own way of doing things.
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The same goes for Valentine's Day – everyone has their own idea of how it should be celebrated.
Some couples go all out with gifts, a lavish night out, and being spoiled by their significant other.
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Others prefer a more low-key approach, enjoying quality time together with a movie and a cosy night in.
Finally, the singles will tell you how much they hate Valentine's Day, embrace it by making plans with friends, or enjoy some well-deserved solo time.
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When it comes to gifts, the classics – teddies, roses, chocolates, and jewellery – never go out of style. But let’s be honest, not everyone wants the same predictable presents.
It can also be a challenge to figure out what to get your significant other after multiple V-Days together.
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With just a few days left, with the help of Rob and Roz, we've rounded up some alternative, and even anti-Valentine's Day gift ideas to help you find the perfect surprise for your special someone!
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1. Roz's Gift Idea: Tennis lessons (Roz's Gift Idea)
Before you skip ahead, hear her out.
Roz says: "I got Chris, my husband, tennis lessons as a Valentine's gift one year. If someone is keen to learn a new skill or something, they'll really value that you want to support that journey. So whether it's singing lessons, or keyboard lessons, or whatever, I think it shows that you are interested in their interests. And that you really want to help them grow."
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2. Plan a surprise trip
It doesn't have to be a big international vacation; it can be as simple as a day trip.
Choose a place your partner or both of you have wanted to go to, or their favourite place that they wish they could visit more.
Maybe it's a beautiful outdoor spot, a small town outside of the city or a museum, somewhere you can explore together.
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3. Cook a three-course gourmet meal
Instead of going out, turn your kitchen into the ultimate gourmet experience.
Find recipes you both love but have never been brave enough to make yourself.
Put together a playlist of your favourite songs, or one that fits the vibe, and have fun collaborating in a comfortable, cosy setting.
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4. Take a class together
Just like Roz's tennis idea, this could be a chance for you to grow together.
If you and your partner have similar interests, such as painting, cooking, or learning a new language, why not do it together?
Not only will it give you something to bond over, but you also get to spend time together doing something you both enjoy.
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5. Themed Movie Marathon Night
One common misconception about Valentine's Day is that you have to go out or spend a lot of money.
If you prefer a night in, plan a themed movie night with films that:
- have special meaning for you and your partner,
- are part of a seriously long franchise ('Harry Potter', 'The Lord of the Rings' extended versions, 'Star Wars', etc.),
- are a new genre you want to explore together.
Turn the space you'll be watching in into a movie theatre, decorate it with a similar theme, and dress in costumes or outfits that fit the theme.
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6. Rob's Gift Idea: Help them with their to-do list
If you know that your partner has a list of things they've been meaning to get to, but they just aren't, why don't you do it?
"It shows that you pay attention, and it isn't just another physical gift that they might appreciate, but not have a lot of use for. It might even include something physical like watering plants or doing some shopping. Ticking off something on their to-do list literally makes their life easier, and it will probably mean a lot more," explains Rob.
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7. Volunteer together
Share your love with others and give back to the community.
Find a charity that needs help and offer your services, whether it's planting trees, helping an animal shelter, or doing a community cleanup.
Not only will you feel more fulfilled, strengthen your relationship, and see your partner in a different light, but you'll also be giving back in a meaningful way and ensuring that your values align.
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8. DIY Spa day
If your partner deserves a day of relaxation and self-care, help them slow down and take the time.
One thing the movies do get right is how much it means to someone when you run them a bath.
Light some candles, throw in some bubbles, a bath bomb, or some essential oils (depending on their preference), and have their bath essentials ready.
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This might include: a book, a glass of wine or a drink of choice, a chill playlist, some snacks or even a series or movie to watch.
If a bath isn't an option, consider offering a service that they would appreciate, like a foot rub, a massage or a face mask.
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9. Favourite books/movies/content
It might seem like a very simple idea, but you might have different tastes in music, books, what you watch and the content you consume.
There is something very thoughtful and meaningful about someone engaging with content they don't like but want to understand.
Surprising your partner by starting a conversation about the latest video from their favourite YouTuber shows you took the time to learn about their interests.
Especially if they don't have anyone they can talk to about it.
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10. Buy practical
If your partner has been complaining about their laptop bag, buy that instead of spending money on a bunch of chocolates.
Listening and paying attention is the easiest way to find the perfect gift.
They mentioned a theatre show they've always wanted to go to, and there are still tickets available? But the tickets! (Even if the date isn't on the 14th of Feb.)
Easy wins:
- Experiences over material things
- Put store-bought flowers in a vase
- Write a letter or card from the heart
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