Is it only the cheating partner's fault if they are unfaithful?

If there is one thing that can ruin a relationship, or in this case, a reputation, it's a scandal involving cheating. 

This latest scandal is that surrounding the Minister in the Presidency, Jeff Radebe. The country's longest-serving cabinet minister, is in hot water for raunchy text and e-mail communication in which he asks for nude pictures of a 29-year-old Union Buildings staffer, Siyasanga Mbambani.

She blew the whistle on the minister and his sexting to solidify her claim that she was being victimised by her bosses at the government communications agency GCIS, for being 'improperly close' to politicians at the Union Buildings when, in fact, they were the ones 'chasing after' her.

We posed the question to a few of our listeners and they had a lot to say on the topic of cheating. Take a listen: 

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