Is it selfish to put yourself first?
Updated | By Dean Paulse
Is it selfish to put yourself first? Motivational speaker Iyanla Vanzant weighed in on the topic and shares a few of her most transformative pieces of advice for how to live a better life.

Iyanla Vanzant is an American inspirational speaker, lawyer, spiritual teacher, author, life coach, and television personality.
Vanzant is known primarily for her books, her eponymous talk show, and her appearances on 'The Oprah Winfrey Show'.
No one gets to the heart of the matter like Vanzant.
Most people struggle to put themselves first - but what does Vanzant have to say?
"It's self-full to be first, to be as good as possible to you, to take care of you, to keep you whole and healthy.
"That doesn't mean that you disregard everything and everyone, but you want to come with your cup full.
"You know, my runneth over. What comes out of the cup is for y'all. What's in the cup is mine. But I got to keep my cup full.
Here are just a few of her most transformative pieces of advice for how to live a better life.
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