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Trust is a foundational part of a relationship.
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In recent years, partners have been calling out new inappropriate behaviour, such as liking other people's Instagram pictures, talking in the DMs, etc.
Cheating will never be cool, and while some behaviours clearly indicate infidelity, each person determines which lines they do not want their partner to cross.
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A recent TikTok video has gone viral with over 3,4-million views, and it has sparked a huge debate online.
The TikTok user, @allthings_kimmy, posted a video of her and her boyfriend enjoying a meal at a restaurant.
@allthings_kimmy pmtfo💥
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While she might have expected others to agree with her, the comments tell a different story:
- Bri Babyyyy - "don’t make me defend a man".
- Mv🤙🏻 - "first time in my life that someone pushes me to defend a man…"
- JUPITER - "Stop being JEALOUS, no one wants your MAN. It's just your man who wants everyone 😂".
- Lena - "ok so personally I wouldn't ask a stranger what they're eating as well (mostly because I don't like talking to strangers/ I can find out for myself), but why would he be in trouble for that? I mean he didn't do anything 😅".
- Lumina - "he's in trouble for being polite??? girl so he should be rude to her beacsus she asked what he has on plate? NAHHH💀".
- Naz - "'Overcompensating with conversation because he's knows I'm livid.' So you fly off the handle so often that your partner anticipates your overreaction, knows you're going to turn that anger back on him, and starts to panic and attempt to soothe you because he knows what's coming? Abuser logic."
- casey dunn341 - "Ngl sometimes my man is rude to girls that talk to him cause he thinks that’s what I want, I told him noooo pls be polite !! Such an ick to see ur man be rude to others, idk why you wouldn’t want him to just have manners 😩".
- valeria_theirin - "Is this a skit?"
She has not yet responded to any of the comments, but has uploaded a new video with the same premise, which has people speculating that it might be a skit.
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Watch the second video here:
@allthings_kimmy unreal
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