Keeping secrets can ruin your relationship

I keep secrets from my husband that I will never tell him!

According to popular belief, keeping secrets can ruin a relationship. But, there are some things we should keep to ourselves.

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I am a firm believer in secrets, I've never passed gas in front of or near my husband. Ever. And I don't think you should either. He should never know how much time or effort it takes to look the way I do. He's never even seen me shave my legs. But what about bigger secrets? 

How do you know which secrets are safe to share and which should be kept safe until the day you close your eyes for the last time? Because the wrong ones could be detrimental to your relationship!  



According to sheknows.com these are the secrets we should never tell :

  • Crushes - Here I disagree, I tell him these all the time, it keeps him on his toes!
  • Beauty secrets and weight - Keep the mystery going by never revealing how much it takes to look so good! 
  • Girls/Boys night our details - This shouldn't even need to be typed. Be vague and only give the highlight reel. 
  • How much you dislike your in laws - I may have messed this one up. Yesterday. At least I'm honest, right?
  • Your "Number" - Does your past really matter anymore? He knows mine and I know his and neither of us care. It really isn't that big of a deal when you realise you're the one he married!  


Do you keep secrets in your relationship? Let me know! 

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